Question: My son attends a public school. One of his teachers is a firm believer in organic evolution, and teaches it as scientific fact, not theory. The teacher is insistent that the students learn every aspect of evolution, and requires them to answer questions about evolution on examinations in such a way as to agree with the teacher's view. What is the proper way to handle this kind of situation? How do I teach my child to stand up for his beliefs, without causing him to receive failing grades and alienate his teacher and classmates, many of whom agree with the teacher?

Answer: This is one of the most frequently asked questions of parents who have children in public schools. As I respond, first let me offer a suggestion about how not to handle the situation. I have never found it advantageous to teach a youngster to "make a scene" in class by strenuously and vocally objecting publicly with the things the teacher is saying. On occasion a student may say (in a rather strident tone) something along these lines to a teacher. "I'm a Christian, and my parents are Christians, and we believe the Bible! The things you are trying to teach me are wrong biblically and wrong scientifically! I do not believe them, and there is nothing you can do to make me believe them!"

In other words, the student places the teacher in an uncomfortable situation before the entire class, which may precipitate a stinging public rebuke of the child. Further, some in the class (e.g., those mentioned above who agree with the teacher in the first place) may use this as an occasion for derision of the child, employing phrases like "religious nut" or "creationist wacko" to poke fun at the youngster's beliefs. Public confrontation of this sort in the classroom rarely provides the desired results.

It has been my experience that another approach works much better. I suggest that the student visit with the teacher outside of class to discuss the situation (e.g., before or after school, during lunch,

during the teacher's free period, etc.). In this discussion, the student should show proper respect for the teacher's position and authority. In a kind, non-confrontational manner, the student might say something to the teacher like this. "I know from what you have been teaching us in class that you believe very strongly in organic evolution, and that you will be teaching it to us as the correct view of origins. I wanted to speak to you privately, so I could bring to your attention my personal views in this matter. I do not believe in the concept of organic evolution. Rather, my family and I believe very strongly in the Bible, and the account of creation that it teaches. I wanted to discuss this with you, and to let you know that while I disagree with your position, I respect your right to believe it--as I hope you will respect my right to believe what I do. I may ask questions or make comments in class that let you and my classmates know I do not believe in evolution, but I will do so respectfully. I will never do anything to embarrass you, or place you in an awkward situation before my fellow students. I will give you the answers you want on the examinations, but I want you to know that as I do so, I do not accept them as true. I also hope that you will not mind if I come talk to you again privately about these matters, if the need arises."

I have never seen such an approach fail. While the teacher may disagree with the student's belief in creation, the teacher cannot help but recognize that this youngster has been taught to be respectful. Furthermore, the teacher (and the child's classmates) cannot help but recognize that this is one student who acts maturely, and who is willing to stand up for what he believes. When the time arrives for an examination, the student inevitably will face such questions as: "The Earth is_______years old." The child can place in the blank the answer (4.6 billion) that the teacher, and the textbook, have provided.

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